Virtual Birthday Bash

Hey guys you are invited to my digital birthday bash March 14th @ 8:00 Pm (PST) this show will only last for about 30 minutes - 1 hour unless all is going well. Show Price will be $1.00. You all can speak to me through the room or via Instant Messenger which I will give to you at the time of the show via PM.

Hope to see you all there.


JD Styles

recapping

ok so i know that i have probably said this before but I HATE MARKETING and now fully understand why large corporations pay top dollar for people to do it for them. Not only is it fucking hella labor intensive but there is a secret art to getting it done.
You have to market or make appealing the product or service that you are willing to make a buck from seem like something that the consumer cannot live without, or that it would be something that will somehow make their daily lives better. Now in the adult entertainment industry this is very hard because peoples sexual appetites vary so much, and that 98% of all adult materials purchased are male consumers, where the other 2% are female generated consisting of toy and very little movie/pornographic materials. So with that little bit of trivial knowledge, what does this mean?
Well as a Solo-Gay/Bi sexual adult entertainer it is extreamly hard to not only sell yourself but market yourself too. Because I dont have a vagina nor tits straight men wont buy me, and because gay men have such high standards in their male sex objects being a 28 year old ***lb man (a true diva never gives out their weight) I dont really fall into the releam of Super Model. However, there are those few men (god bless them) that not only find me attractive, but also are wonderful fans that like the "real" people. Guys that are just like them, who are not fake or superficial. And that is who I market myself to. My hardest thing right now is just getting them to eddy up with some money because there are so many people out there that offer free porn it makes it hard for persons who do web or online porn for a living hard.
But in all fairness its a fun industry and wouldnt trade it for anything in the world. I just hate marketing.

Remember guys and gals you can call me anytime at 1-800-863-5478 x 0465430

Getting shit together

Getting shit together
6:57AM on March 03, 2008

OK so I have come to the conclusion that I really need to get shit together and start treating my site as a business and working it. However, I know that its very hard to market a single gay male who doesn't do hardcore. And because I dont have an over all style it makes it that much harder too.
I am really liking the whole Phone Sex thing but thats kinda hard to market too since there is a whole 'shyness' that you must over come, not only as the operator but on the customer level too. Seeing the porn and listening to a real live person interacting with you are wholly different experiences. Where still images and videos are always there and you pretty much own them thus after purchasing them, there is that since of security because they are not able to judge you. Where as PSO's are living breathing people, that have the uncensored ability to say anything at any given minute, that makes it more scary for the customer because they are afraid of being judged or ridiculed for their sexual fantasy's or fetishes.
As a true PSO you try and learn not to judge or otherwise belittle your customers because if you provide them with a truly interactive conversation that deals with their wants and needs regardless of how bizar they might be, that customer will continue calling you back just because you have not only taken the time to answer your phone but have met them on their level and were able to smoothly guide them out of their comfort area of actually verbalizing their fetishes or sexual needs but you have in their minds created a relationship/friendship that allows them to feel comfortable around you and talking to you.
So knowing these things I have developed a very personal relationship with many of my customers and have come to think of myself as a sexual therapist and have actually begun looking forward to hearing from my customers on a regular basis. So I guess the whole point of this blog is just that I need to find a direction and go with it.....Any Idea's?