Getting shit together

Getting shit together
6:57AM on March 03, 2008

OK so I have come to the conclusion that I really need to get shit together and start treating my site as a business and working it. However, I know that its very hard to market a single gay male who doesn't do hardcore. And because I dont have an over all style it makes it that much harder too.
I am really liking the whole Phone Sex thing but thats kinda hard to market too since there is a whole 'shyness' that you must over come, not only as the operator but on the customer level too. Seeing the porn and listening to a real live person interacting with you are wholly different experiences. Where still images and videos are always there and you pretty much own them thus after purchasing them, there is that since of security because they are not able to judge you. Where as PSO's are living breathing people, that have the uncensored ability to say anything at any given minute, that makes it more scary for the customer because they are afraid of being judged or ridiculed for their sexual fantasy's or fetishes.
As a true PSO you try and learn not to judge or otherwise belittle your customers because if you provide them with a truly interactive conversation that deals with their wants and needs regardless of how bizar they might be, that customer will continue calling you back just because you have not only taken the time to answer your phone but have met them on their level and were able to smoothly guide them out of their comfort area of actually verbalizing their fetishes or sexual needs but you have in their minds created a relationship/friendship that allows them to feel comfortable around you and talking to you.
So knowing these things I have developed a very personal relationship with many of my customers and have come to think of myself as a sexual therapist and have actually begun looking forward to hearing from my customers on a regular basis. So I guess the whole point of this blog is just that I need to find a direction and go with it.....Any Idea's?